I've never been in love, or am I falling in love all the time?!
One would think that the world "love" is an universal feeling, preserved, expressed and felt in every living creature on this planet. But there are also a million of interpretations to the world love as there are shades of the colour white according to the Eskimos.
When you say "I love you", do you mean the same love as I do? Is it ever possible for two people to express the same kind of love to one another?
Could there be different kind of love? I mean, the love we have towards our parents must be different compare to the love we have towards our partner, right?!
I would say that it is but love based on different things. I love my parents because,.they are my parents and the very important backbones in my life. I love my very near and dear friends because they understand and support me and make me happy.
But then it comes to that love we have towards someone we see as a very good friend who we also feel attrackted to. The love towards a person who "makes you whole", makes you better, makes you stronger, makes you capable of doing things you never thought you were able to do..
One friend told me that he believe that love only come once in a life time. That there may be a number of people you love, but in the end there was only ONE person who whas that ultimate love in your life. And I have another friend who believe that love happens more than once.
And if both of them are true, how do we differentiate the love we have towards different people in our life?
Here I just wish I could just create a boring love- scale that would makes things soo much easier.
Ok, so I love you like in 8 out of 10 on the rating scale, and you say you love me 6 out of 10 on the rating scale which means that I love you more. So, um... yea, I love you but... I don't love you as you love me so,. maybe we should just...leave it..
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"Love it just a word until someone comes around and gives it a meaning.."
..man, come and hit me with that meaning.
Jag brukar faktiskt tänka på det som en skala. Som en normalfördelning. I centrum har du personer du är likgiltig mot, personer du varken gillar eller ogillar. På den positiva sidan finns personer du tycker om och desto mer de avviker från medelvärdet i normalfördelningen desto mindre sannolikt är det att sådana personer förekommer i befolkningen. Den person som är högst på den positiva sidan är den som bör vara ens partner men statistiskt sett så kan det mycket väl hända att det dyker upp en annan person som avviker mer från medelvärdet. Jag ser därför inte riktigt på kärlek som ett absolut tillstånd. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Standard_deviation#mediaviewer/File:Standard_deviation_diagram.svg